The title of a book or movie or -- as here -- a blog, should grab your attention, and then make a stab at answering the question: "What's it about?" I've tried to do both, also sneaking in a little word play.
The first aim worked, apparently, since you are here (unless you are here only as a dutiful daughter or a faithful friend).
As for the "about" question: Playing with words is part of what it's about, but even more, it is about working with words. I'm referring to the work that determines whether certain words should be admitted into dictionaries and, if they are let in, how much they should be pampered, or pretty much left to fend for themselves. That's the main reason the title refers to "defining" -- this blog will deal with defining, as in creating dictionaries, but also many other experiences that involve "doing definition."
So, the word play is...
"Defining Experiences" as a title can be understood several ways, and that's the fun of it.
"Defining" could be read as an adjective -- describing certain experiences as having lasting significance. That is probably the way you first perceived this "collocation" (i.e., two or more words typically used together, like "defining experiences" or "defining moments") That's not how I mainly mean it here, but I might give that sense of it a post, eventually.
Or, "defining" could be a noun -- the act or experience of defining -- which is the main way I intend the expression here.
And a third possibility: "defining" could be a verb, referring to applying the act, in this case, to the word, "experiences". At some time I might do a post on definitions of the word "experiences," but that's not for now.
Working with words is intriguing because...
I liked that title precisely because it self-exemplifies a fundamental feature of words and phrases that is not well-recognized for its sociological significance: Most words, alone and in phrases, have multiple meanings -- multitudes, in fact, if we consider fine shadings that apply in each individual conversation or document where words and phrases are performing their service.
Given that reality, a major goal of the considerable work put into dictionaries (more precisely, a goal of the professionals who write most dictionaries) is a valiant effort but is, in a deep sense, impossible to achieve. Dictionary-writers attempt in vain to encompass and pin down some limited number of definitions (a separate matter from deciding whether to include words to be defined). And dictionary-users in turn seek what is essentially unreachable -- general definitions that precisely apply to the unique situations where they encountered particular words, or plan to use them.
From that last paragraph -- which implies that dictionaries are cultural products that engage a broad range of users and producers -- lots of questions about language and society spring up. This blog aims to inform and entertain partly by clarifying and dealing with those questions.
(Did I mention that I am a sociologist and that's the perspective that will suffuse this blog?)
News reports about dictionaries and defining???
Yes, the media do pay attention -- rarely -- to these kinds of questions. So along the way, I'll throw in news and op-ed items involving dictionaries and "social defining."
There's more to explain, but...
This is enough, I hope, as a start to convey the thrust of this blog. Let me know if it's not clear -- or if you disagree (or agree) with the little bit of information I've shared so far.
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